Mommy made me sweet potatoes, sauted mushrooms and asperagus (sp?) and chicken. She loves me <3
She also made me home made hummus (since regular hummus has sesame in it anf therefor i cant eat it). She made garlic lemon hummus! SO GOOD. She also made me home made chicken soup.
I love my mother. I had been really stressed out about food. Since j have to buy all allergy special food (going no corn, wheat, and sesame, along with my 15 other allergies makes food shopping hard and expensive). I had been super crabby because i was basically going hungry. My car also broke down AND i got a red light ticket so…needless to say i was freaking out.
She took me to costco and bought me all kinds of food and has been making me allergy free meals :) she also drove me to school (since the first day of school my car wouldnt start) and has just been all around supportive. It makes me so happy and feel so blessed to have my mom. Especially since just two or three years ago we basically never talked and i “hated” her. I am glad i finally…well..grew the fuck up.
Once i started to openly talk to her (which the first time was coming out to her about how much i smoked. I was like..sobbing because talking to her was so hard). If you close yourself off from someone for so long, it becomes like..painful to talk to them honestly. I was so used to giving her bullshit or being a smart ass that it was really hard for me to own up and talk to her like an adult. And guise. The most wonderful thing happen.
She understood me. She listened. She supported me. Now we smoke together. Not so much anymore, but thats ok because i think im getting over smoking myself.
Basically, once i started respecting my mother a crazy thing happened - she started to respect me! And now we have this beautiful relationship. And it boggles my mind to think that for so many years i hated, resented, and loathed that woman. But i jjust didnt get it back then. I do now. She didnt let me get away with shit, she was never the “cool mom”. She was strict. And you know why? Cuz she wanted me to learn, to become independent and responible. I am the only person i know of my age that is fully supporting themselves and going to school, holding up two jobs, has perfect credit, and two retirement/roth IRA accounts. Plus three credit cards, and several thousand in savings.
At 22.
And its all because of my mother.
I am so thankful. I cant wait to go to mexico with her! 14 more daysssss!
